Women are incredibly territorial and possessive.
You dump a guy for whatever reasons... Not being you type, not into him anymore, he is boring. You know, legitimate reasons for why you no longer want to see him. I've found that most of the time these types of relationships weren't long, and they normally ended with one person more attached than the other.
But we as women , who so the breaking up with are fine. Until the man shows interest in another woman. It's like we expect this man to want us forever or until we find a new man. And if he finds someone first, oh it's on.
You play with his emotions to get him back to being wrapped around your finger again and then when he gets too close you push him away, and the cycle repeats. Why? Because us women never know how to let go.
The truth is you don't even like the guy, you honest to God don't. It's nothing personal, you just couldn't find it within yourself to date him. But you end up missing him, talking about him excessively to your friends, dreaming about him. Constantly checking you emails, texts, facebooks and instagrams to see what this guy is up to and who he is doing it with. And you don't even like him!
Why do us women do this to ourselves? Why so we miss a man we didn't want? Do we miss the attention? The feelings of butterflies in he beginning? Or do we just miss being needed and being wanted.
All I know is its gotta stop! We have to stop terribly ruining these men! So what he stars dating a slut with fake hair! You didn't like him in the first place so it shouldn't Matter now!
Accept the fact that you weren't gunna work out, go out with girlfriend until you get your groove back and get back into the game and go break some more unsuspecting hearts!
Be kind, and stay away!
Xoxo
Sophie
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